The Richest People in America

Richest People in America August 11th, 2007

Seventy-seven years ago today, my grandparents were married. They exemplify the rich life that I write about in this blog and aspire to as well. I have never known two people who were as generous as grandpa and grandma Richardson. In the years when people had to get sponsors to come to the US, my grandparents sponsored a dozen families or more. They helped pay for the educate of new Americans making it possible for them to pursue a life they never dreamed possible. For some, they paid for their four year degree, others they helped to pay for graduate school and one man, they paid for his doctoral studies which enable him to have a long career working for DuPont. The lives they touched were amazing.

From as far back as I can remember, Grandma had a sewing group that met weekly at her house. Five to seven ladies would come to my grandparents mountain home each week and sew school bags and clothes for children through and organization called Church World Service. When I visited my grandparents, it was rare to find my grandmother without something she was sewing in her hands. She always thought about others and what she could do to make a difference. I can remember semi truck loads of clothes and school supplies being shipped from Waynesville, NC to help children all over the world. She collected pencils, notebook paper, and other school supplies to fill these bags mad e from scraps of material.

Late in her life she was the caregiver for her wealthy older sister. When my great Aunt died, my grandmother inherited a large sum of money which she methodically gave away to causes she cared about including the Heifer Project, Compassion International, Habitat for Humanity, March of Dimes, and countless fine charitable organizations. My grandparents believed in giving others a lift in life.

As a present to my grandfather who served many years as a pastor, my grandmother started a college scholarship fund at a Florida Southern College for students pursuing a career in the ministry. Without my grandfather ever knowing, she raised money at church bazaars, through bake sales, and by asking for contributions from the people who knew and loved my grandfather over the years. On his 75th birthday, she presented him with a certificate stating that over $100,000 had been put into an endowment fund to help young people get an education.

One of the greatest treasures I have are recordings of both of my grandparents talking about their lives from as early as they can remember even up to their last years. My grandmother loved to read and I loved to hear her read even long after I became an adult. She would Uncle Remus books and a very non-political correct book called Old Adam and his Chillin’. As she read, she would use a variety of voices for the different characters and races represented though their wasn’t a racist bone in her 5′0″, ninety five pound body. She loved all people and helped anyone who needed help who was willing to help themselves.

The blessing both my grandparents received over the years were tremendous. Many children shared the legacy of their names. Extended family members of those who were helped by my grandparents visited and stay in communication with her right up until her death in 2003 at the age of ninety-seven. To me, they represent the legacy of a life well lived and they truly were some of the richest people I have ever known.

Tim Richardson is an inspirational speaker who speaks about how giving increases employee morale, lowers employee turnover, increases customer loyalty and creates higher profits for Fortune 500 companies, associations, and national conventions. He is the founder of the The Worlds Biggest Blog Party an event which will connect bloggers from all over the world to raise money for charity. He is also founder and president of the Bill Walter Melanoma Research Fund. For more information on Tim, go to www.TimRichardson.com

 

National Underwear Day

Fun and Frivolous August 8th, 2007

Apparently, I blew it. Yesterday was National Underwear Day - so many choices, so little time. In the haste of all the celebrations (yesterday was my 20th Independence Day Celebration), I just didn’t get a chance to fully celebrate the day. However, somehow, somewhere the day got it’s justice. When I read about National Underwear Day (a day created by companies that sell underwear), I was reminded of another day- Sunday Undie Day - a day created by a philanthropist Henri Landwirth. This year, this event collected 77,557 pairs of underwear(why is underwear a pair anyway?) and diapers for poor and homeless families in North East Florida.

Look for Henri to appear on the Richest People in America list for this year. I would bet Henri didn’t pose yesterday in his underwear for anyone. So don’t feel bad if you missed it. You’ll probably feel better by donating some underwear than donning some and posing in public.

Tim Richardson is an inspirational speaker who wears his underwear in private only. He speaks about how giving increases employee morale, lowers employee turnover, increases customer loyalty and creates higher profits for Fortune 500 companies, associations, and national conventions. He is the founder of the The Worlds Biggest Blog Party an event which will connect bloggers from all over the world to raise money for charity. He is also founder and president of the Bill Walter Melanoma Research Fund. For more information on Tim, go to www.TimRichardson.com

Independence Day

Motivational August 7th, 2007

Twenty years ago today, I was released from prison. This is not something many people know about me and frankly, I have not told too many people what today means to me. I served time in Tallahassee, Florida - three and a half long years. Each day was the same grind. I lived for weekends when the drudgery of the week was less. My prison was the IBM Corporation where I was employed right out of college. I truly was a fish out of water and yes some days I felt like I was incarcerated. The times that I was jazzed at work were after we had been given opportunities to attend training programs or motivational speakers. Some of the motivational speakers and corporate speakers I heard at IBM, helped me decide that professional speaking is what I would do in my own life. I was also heavily influenced by a few books I read.

The summer before I started at IBM, I had spent living with my brother in Chico, California. As fate would have it, an old roommate of his had left a box of books in the spare bedroom of my brothers apartment. There were two books on the top of the stack that I read cover to cover - The Magic of Thinking Big by David Swartz and How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. Those two books started me on a journey toward goal setting and having a positive attitude. They are books I will always treasure. After I graduated from college, a professor at Florida Southern College where I received my undergraduate degree, gave me the book The Greatest Salesman in the World by Og Mandio. I didn’t start reading that book until I was in a very down place at work (almost getting fired can make most people a bit down). I credit that book as a life turning point. Those three books all contributed to my departure from IBM on this day in 1987. I remember my friends thinking I was crazy. My family didn’t understand. My co-workers thought I had lost it by leaving what Tom Peters called one of the best companies to work for in the world. Only my golden retriever dog seemed to understand. I remember taking her for a walk on decision day (the day I needed to tell management my career plans). I had applied for an educational leave of absence hoping to finish my masters degree at Florida State University. My plan was to take a year off IBM, finish a few remaining courses, while determining if I could make a go at it as an entrepreneur. I thought if it didn’t work out, I could go back to IBM in another position. The managers who reviewed my leave application did me the greatest favor ever by saying no to my plan (of course I didn’t know it at the time). I remember being in a big field with my dog as tears flowed down my face. I truly didn’t know what to do. I had just bought a house, a Jeep CJ7, and was on the verge of becoming president of a company that had no assets and no customers! As crazy as it sounds, I asked my dog (maybe it was God - I am a bit dyslexic) “What am I supposed to do?”. After our walk, I went home and stopped at the mailbox before going in my house. There in the box was my answer on the cover of Success magazine. The cover article was titled “IBM Renegades: Where are They Now?”. While I haven’t (yet) graced the cover of Success magazine, I do feel like a renegade sometimes. As I took the road less traveled. Independence can be bliss.

So tonight, I celebrate my 20th anniversary of leaving IBM and starting my own business. It’s been a journey with lots of twists and turns but worth the ride.

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It seems fitting today to introduce the latest project: The Worlds Biggest Blog Party. You are invited to party on. I hope you’ll join the fun.

Tim Richardson is an inspirational speaker who speaks about how giving increases employee morale, lowers employee turnover, increases customer loyalty and creates higher profits for Fortune 500 companies. He is founder of the Bill Walter Melanoma Research Fund. For more information on Tim, go to www.TimRichardson.com

Ebb and Flow

Uncategorized August 6th, 2007

We recently had friends in from out of town. Their kids are older than ours and they were telling us of their trials and tribulations (and there were many). It made a huge impact on my wife and me. We couldn’t stop thinking about their situation for days.

A day or two later, my son, age 11, was reading my bio for a proposal that was sitting on the kitchen table for my wife, Adele, to proof. When I wasn’t around, he said to her, “Gosh, Mommy, have you read daddy’s bio? It’s so long. He sure has done a lot with all the books he’s written (two). Do you think the president has heard about him?” 

Wouldn’t it be great if we could always live up to the pedestal our young children put us upon? W, are you listening?

Tim Richardson is an inspirational speaker who speaks about how giving increases employee morale, lowers employee turnover, increases customer loyalty and creates higher profits for Fortune 500 companies. He is founder of the Bill Walter Melanoma Research Fund. For more information on Tim, go to www.TimRichardson.com

How To Raise Children That Care.

Making a Difference in the World, Uncategorized August 3rd, 2007

Martha Wegner guest blogger
Last month I attended a high school graduation party. The daughter of a former colleague of mine, Lindsey is a lovely girl; one I don’t know too well, but from all accounts she is a superstar. She has a nearly perfect grade point average, has won state honors at forensics tournaments, is captain of the cheerleading squad, and is a gifted pianist. The list of achievements and accolades seems never ending. No wonder the top colleges are scrambling to sign her up. Yet, watching Lindsey and her friends, the ones with the cell phones held to their ears and the cars that their parents bought for them parked in back, a tiny worry kept nagging at me, and continues to nag at me: In our zeal for raising the best and the brightest, have we forgotten something? Sure, we’ve done our best to provide the best in schooling, the best camps, and the best music lessons, just so our children can win the achievement race. But has all this bestowing of the best on our children given them a self-centered attitude, one that suggests that “I” come first above all else? Have we somehow forgotten to stress the importance of intangible virtues? Virtues which will never earn you a good grade or first place ribbon; virtues such as kindness, generosity, and selfless giving? Does it matter? I think it does; I hope it does.Recently, our local news station ran a story on some exceptional volunteers. One of these was a 17-year-old high school student named Mike Stott.According to the story, “At the start of his sophomore year, Mike noticed Kyle Watkins, a fellow classmate with Down Syndrome. Mike realized that Kyle could use a friend who would treat him like a regular teenager. Mike and Kyle did all kinds of things together. Mike taught Kyle how to play golf.That activity turned into something unexpected — a golf league for people with Down syndrome.Another young teen, 14-year-old Whitney Buesgens, was honored for her volunteer work at Our House Hospice. This 14-year-old talks with people who are facing death. She reads to them and offers comfort. “Even when they’re dying, they’re happy to see me,” Whitney says. “Nobody likes death. They’re all scared of it. But I’m not afraid. I’m the kid in the room who listens to them.”These are amazing examples of children who have looked outside themselves, and decided to do what they could do to make the world a better place. Not only are they making a difference in their community, they are in fact enriching their own lives. They’ve experienced the pure pleasure and satisfaction one feels when he or she does a good deed for another person.

It’s a feeling no object or award can give you.

So, how did Mike and Whitney and other young people like them decide to reach beyond their cell phones and text messaging to help others? Listen to what 93 old Pearl Anderson, a volunteer at the local nursing home for 60 years has to say: “My parents were adamant about two things - pursuing an education, and sharing your blessings with those who don’t have them.”

Yes, we parents have work to do. If we want our children to be contributing members of society, to reap the benefits of doing good deeds for others, we’d better get busy. As Martin Luther King, Jr. said: “Every [person] must decide whether he will walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness.”

So, how do we teach our kids to “walk in the light of creative altruism”, to be the ones who do the good deeds, both big and small?

Here are some suggestions to get you started:

Do as I Do

Remember the Boy Scout Slogan: “Do a Good Turn Daily”. Do a good deed, maybe 2 or 3 everyday, and make sure your kids see you doing it. Sweep the elderly neighbor’s front step; put away that shopping cart that is in the middle of the parking lot. Thank the person who is bagging your groceries. No need to brag or make a big deal of it - just let your kids see what you are doing and let them know how good it feels to you.

Provide Opportunities

Give your children opportunities to “do a good turn daily”. The next time your yard is full of leaves, hand your child a rake and tell him or her to rake the neighbor’s lawn (in addition to your own). Sign the whole family up to work for Habitat for Humanity for an afternoon. Remind your child to pick up trash lying in the school hallway.

Take Notice

In his book, Nurturing Your Child Now: 10 Basic Skills to Protect and Strengthen your Child’s Core Self, Dr. Ron Taffel suggests we point out the good deeds our children are doing everyday. “Praise your child when he is courteous to you or when he does something for another person. And be sure to point out when someone else is being kind. Get into the habit of asking yourself at least once a day, ‘Have I pointed out any act of kindness today?’”

Big days Mean Big Opportunities for Kindness

Volunteer at a soup kitchen with your children on Thanksgiving. Visit a hospital to deliver gifts to children during Christmas. Have your child write a thank you note to someone special on his birthday.

Join up

Sign your child up for groups whose main mission is to do good deeds (along

with having fun). Groups such as Boy Scouts, Girl Scouts, or the youth group at your church or synagogue are a good place to start.

Read all about it

Read with your children books about inspiring heroes such as Eleanor Roosevelt and Abraham Lincoln. What made these people great? What good deeds did they do for others? You’ll both find that their greatness lies in the good things they did for others.

Give unto others

Most of us give money or goods to charity. Let your children know which charities you are supporting and why. Let them be part of the decision making process.

The well-known psychologist, Carl Jung, said, “It is only our deeds that reveal who we are.” I want my children’s deeds to reveal to themselves and to others the great and wonderful beings that they truly are. Time to get busy!

Tim Richardson is an inspirational speaker who speaks about how giving increases employee morale, lowers employee turnover, increases customer loyalty and creates higher profits for Fortune 500 companies, associations, and national conventions. He is the founder of the The Worlds Biggest Blog Party an event which will connect bloggers from all over the world to raise money for charity. He is also founder and president of the Bill Walter Melanoma Research Fund. For more information on Tim, go to www.TimRichardson.com

Never too old

Just life August 1st, 2007

Today I met Olive ….(well, over the internet). I would bet she is the oldest blogger in the world at 107. Does anyone know someone older? It would be interesting to find the youngest blogger in the world, the person blogging in the most remote area of the world, the person who has the most blog entries, etc.

Olive, you are invited to the Worlds Biggest Blog Party starting September 11th. Who says you can’t teach an old dog new tricks.

Tim Richardson is an inspirational speaker who speaks about how giving increases employee morale, lowers employee turnover, increases customer loyalty and creates higher profits for Fortune 500 companies. He is founder of the Bill Walter Melanoma Research Fund. For more information on Tim, go to www.TimRichardson.com